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What is the one secret, apology, or unspoken feeling you are still holding onto that you’d want your ex to know?

..simply to give yourself closure.

We often carry the heavy burden of unsaid words long after a relationship ends, allowing them to silently drain our emotional energy. By finally acknowledging this hidden truth, even just to ourself, we take the first crucial step toward genuine healing and letting go.
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MellyMel22 · F
That I’m sorry I ran, literally. I just wasn’t ready.
Renkon · M
@MellyMel22 It can be hard…sometimes scary too.
MellyMel22 · F
@Renkon True.. He blurted out all at once randomly that he wanted to move across the country(he was being stationed there), get married and have kids.
SW-User
It's all a waste of time
You have to give yourself your own closure
Ontheroad · M
@QuietReverie I think it's way past some and at more like virtually all of us to some extent, wear masks.
SW-User
@Renkon It's simple and we make it complicated. Some people just are not good communicators or are emotionally immature and there isn't anything you can do about that . You accept it for what it is ...learn ...move on ...
Magenta · F
@SW-User Such a great point. We do complicate it. Accepting the emotional immaturity and leaving it there.
Ontheroad · M
In my opinion, closure can't come from another, it has to come from the self. Yes, giving a heartfelt apology for your role in the breakup is important. However, past that, any closure has to come from yourself.
I haven’t held onto anything,I don’t allow anyone to drain me anymore, I let everything go, I don’t need closure for anything now.
ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F
I wish we could have found a path forward, and his poster child for secrecy thinks he’s being ridiculous, too.

 
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