MellyMel22 · F
That I’m sorry I ran, literally. I just wasn’t ready.
Renkon · M
@MellyMel22 It can be hard…sometimes scary too.
MellyMel22 · F
@Renkon True.. He blurted out all at once randomly that he wanted to move across the country(he was being stationed there), get married and have kids.

SW-User
It's all a waste of time
You have to give yourself your own closure
You have to give yourself your own closure
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Ontheroad · M
@QuietReverie I think it's way past some and at more like virtually all of us to some extent, wear masks.

SW-User
@Renkon It's simple and we make it complicated. Some people just are not good communicators or are emotionally immature and there isn't anything you can do about that . You accept it for what it is ...learn ...move on ...
Magenta · F
@SW-User Such a great point. We do complicate it. Accepting the emotional immaturity and leaving it there.
Ontheroad · M
In my opinion, closure can't come from another, it has to come from the self. Yes, giving a heartfelt apology for your role in the breakup is important. However, past that, any closure has to come from yourself.
I haven’t held onto anything,I don’t allow anyone to drain me anymore, I let everything go, I don’t need closure for anything now.
ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F
I wish we could have found a path forward, and his poster child for secrecy thinks he’s being ridiculous, too.







