Just a normal conversation between my ex husband and myself.
I took my son today to take his driving test so he can get his license. When we pulled in we pulled out his documents from his glove box and I looked at his current insurance verification and realized it had just expired back in October. My son tells me he has a picture of a new card that his dad texted to him a while back. When he pulls it up on his phone we realize that one had just expired at the end of March. So I Called my ex husband to get a new copy of my son’s insurance verification because his car insurance is through his father and he hadn’t yet sent him the updated verification cards.
Here’s how that conversation goes-
Me: Hey sorry to bother you, but can you please send me the new updated insurance verification for “son’s name”?
Him: “Son’s name” should have a copy of it already in his car.
Me: No, that one was expired in October shortly after the time I brought him to try to take his driving test last.
Him: Well then he should already have it, I sent a new one to him in his text messages a few months ago.
Me: Yes, but the one that you texted to him last expired at the end of March. So since it’s April now he needs the newest one.
Him: do you need it now, because I’ll probably have to call them and try to find it somewhere.
Me: yes we are here now, for him to retake his test.
Him: well you don’t need it, the doctors office can just go online and they should be able to look it up, are you at his doctor’s office right now?
Me: What??? we are not at the doctor’s office. I don’t need his medical insurance, Like I said we are trying to get his drivers license and no, they can’t just look it up we have to have his insurance verification or he can’t take the test. I just got here and saw the ones he has are expired. they will need that whenever they call him to go do the test.
Him: Interrupts me before I could finish speaking yelling over me. Oh my God, what the fuck is wrong with you, you stupid cunt, if you would just shut the fuck up for once, I heard what you fucking said you dumb bitch, but shit you apparently don’t know how to fucking listen? I told you to hold on because I fucking have to call them first.
Me: okay never mind then, my bad. I’ll just call them myself. I just thought you might have it on you, or on your insurance app. since it’s under your name and they send you the new verification cards in the mail.
The whole time my son is sitting next to me in the car and can hear what his dad is saying because of how loud he was yelling through the phone.
So I then hang up and call the insurance agent myself and ask them if they could send me a copy of the card, luckily the agent has known me and our family for many years, Otherwise I usually wouldn’t be able to call and have it sent to me since the policy for my son is under my exs name and his account. The agent says it’s no problem and they would send it over to me in just a few minutes asking if I want it sent by text or emailed. I tell texting would be faster and so that I could also easily text it to my son’s phone so he will have a copy of it too. I thank them and hang up. About 15mins go by, and I receive the insurance verification information from the agent. I send a copy of it to my son’s hone and we go inside to check in for his driving test.
Then after another 30 mins go by (45 minutes now from
When I called my ex to begin with) I receive a text from my ex saying the following-
Him: So wow, that’s crazy, you called me to ask me for “son’s name” insurance information and when I just now called the agent to get it they tell me that apparently you have already called them and they already sent it to you…. so why in the fuck did you even call me to begin with.
Me: yes, you’re right I did call them myself and I told you that while we were on the phone. I told you never mind because I was going to call them myself. I called the agent as soon as we hung up from speaking and they sent it over a few minutes later. The reason I originally called you was because you are his father and his car insurance is under your policy. I thought you would have his insurance verification card either with you, on your app, in your wallet, or in your car.
Him: Yeah well I called them right then too, but it’s not a big deal and since you already have it now you don’t need anything else from me, so we’re good.
Did he pass his driving test?
Me: We are still waiting for him to take it. He had to have his insurance verification first before we could do anything, we are now just waiting for the instructor to take him for the driving test. I’ll have him let you know when he’s done.
Here’s how that conversation goes-
Me: Hey sorry to bother you, but can you please send me the new updated insurance verification for “son’s name”?
Him: “Son’s name” should have a copy of it already in his car.
Me: No, that one was expired in October shortly after the time I brought him to try to take his driving test last.
Him: Well then he should already have it, I sent a new one to him in his text messages a few months ago.
Me: Yes, but the one that you texted to him last expired at the end of March. So since it’s April now he needs the newest one.
Him: do you need it now, because I’ll probably have to call them and try to find it somewhere.
Me: yes we are here now, for him to retake his test.
Him: well you don’t need it, the doctors office can just go online and they should be able to look it up, are you at his doctor’s office right now?
Me: What??? we are not at the doctor’s office. I don’t need his medical insurance, Like I said we are trying to get his drivers license and no, they can’t just look it up we have to have his insurance verification or he can’t take the test. I just got here and saw the ones he has are expired. they will need that whenever they call him to go do the test.
Him: Interrupts me before I could finish speaking yelling over me. Oh my God, what the fuck is wrong with you, you stupid cunt, if you would just shut the fuck up for once, I heard what you fucking said you dumb bitch, but shit you apparently don’t know how to fucking listen? I told you to hold on because I fucking have to call them first.
Me: okay never mind then, my bad. I’ll just call them myself. I just thought you might have it on you, or on your insurance app. since it’s under your name and they send you the new verification cards in the mail.
The whole time my son is sitting next to me in the car and can hear what his dad is saying because of how loud he was yelling through the phone.
So I then hang up and call the insurance agent myself and ask them if they could send me a copy of the card, luckily the agent has known me and our family for many years, Otherwise I usually wouldn’t be able to call and have it sent to me since the policy for my son is under my exs name and his account. The agent says it’s no problem and they would send it over to me in just a few minutes asking if I want it sent by text or emailed. I tell texting would be faster and so that I could also easily text it to my son’s phone so he will have a copy of it too. I thank them and hang up. About 15mins go by, and I receive the insurance verification information from the agent. I send a copy of it to my son’s hone and we go inside to check in for his driving test.
Then after another 30 mins go by (45 minutes now from
When I called my ex to begin with) I receive a text from my ex saying the following-
Him: So wow, that’s crazy, you called me to ask me for “son’s name” insurance information and when I just now called the agent to get it they tell me that apparently you have already called them and they already sent it to you…. so why in the fuck did you even call me to begin with.
Me: yes, you’re right I did call them myself and I told you that while we were on the phone. I told you never mind because I was going to call them myself. I called the agent as soon as we hung up from speaking and they sent it over a few minutes later. The reason I originally called you was because you are his father and his car insurance is under your policy. I thought you would have his insurance verification card either with you, on your app, in your wallet, or in your car.
Him: Yeah well I called them right then too, but it’s not a big deal and since you already have it now you don’t need anything else from me, so we’re good.
Did he pass his driving test?
Me: We are still waiting for him to take it. He had to have his insurance verification first before we could do anything, we are now just waiting for the instructor to take him for the driving test. I’ll have him let you know when he’s done.
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