my bf is an ass
so he was talking about how he really needed a shit at work, but someone else was in the stall, taking forever. i said “just ask them to hurry up” and he said “i did, and i watched them come out” i didn’t actually think he was gonna tell them to hurry up. so i said “that’s sad, he was probably embarrassed” and he said “if you get embarrassed by that as a guy, you’re a gimp”
i said “you get embarrassed all the time” he said “what are you talking about?” and i said “you told me you were embarrassed one time when you accidentally forgot to lock the stall door, and got walked in on. he said “that’s a bit different, i had my cock out” i replied “so you’re embarrassed about your cock” that response got him really angry. he sent me a voice note saying in an aggressive tone “are you actually retarded? you walk out in a public toilet with your pussy, see how u feel. are u retarded?” then he said “i’m ignoring u for the rest of the day”
he never usually speaks to me like that. it was a first and it surprised me. i responded “omg it was a joke. why did you take that so seriously? calm down” he said “it was a joke at first until you dragged it on for 2 hours” which i didn’t, he was as just responding slow as he was working. so i left him on opened. he then sent a snap, i left him on opened again. he said “so you’re ignoring me now, fine”
i said “i don’t think i can look at you the same. i can’t take that type of disrespect. that was a really nasty and weird reaction.”
he responded “have you lost your mind?” he said that he said it in a joking way. he said that i just assumed that he meant it as in a rude way, and i explained it was in his tone, and he says he talks to everyone like a that. he was getting defensive and said “this is always gonna be a problem with you, you assuming things” i said nothing can justify the way he spoke to me; and he said if i had just asked him why he was being rude, he would have told me he was joking. but if he was joking then why is it that after i said “why did u take that so seriously, it was a joke” he replied in an annoyed tone”it was a joke at first, until u dragged it on for 2 hours” ??
i said “you get embarrassed all the time” he said “what are you talking about?” and i said “you told me you were embarrassed one time when you accidentally forgot to lock the stall door, and got walked in on. he said “that’s a bit different, i had my cock out” i replied “so you’re embarrassed about your cock” that response got him really angry. he sent me a voice note saying in an aggressive tone “are you actually retarded? you walk out in a public toilet with your pussy, see how u feel. are u retarded?” then he said “i’m ignoring u for the rest of the day”
he never usually speaks to me like that. it was a first and it surprised me. i responded “omg it was a joke. why did you take that so seriously? calm down” he said “it was a joke at first until you dragged it on for 2 hours” which i didn’t, he was as just responding slow as he was working. so i left him on opened. he then sent a snap, i left him on opened again. he said “so you’re ignoring me now, fine”
i said “i don’t think i can look at you the same. i can’t take that type of disrespect. that was a really nasty and weird reaction.”
he responded “have you lost your mind?” he said that he said it in a joking way. he said that i just assumed that he meant it as in a rude way, and i explained it was in his tone, and he says he talks to everyone like a that. he was getting defensive and said “this is always gonna be a problem with you, you assuming things” i said nothing can justify the way he spoke to me; and he said if i had just asked him why he was being rude, he would have told me he was joking. but if he was joking then why is it that after i said “why did u take that so seriously, it was a joke” he replied in an annoyed tone”it was a joke at first, until u dragged it on for 2 hours” ??
18-21, F
