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Being celibate isn't always a cakewalk

I'm not going to lie with some ego pride or false info. Most of the time it's good. But sometimes it's rough too. There's always those moments of reconsideration, but usually all it takes is talking to someone for 5 mins. I'm going to share something that kills 2 birds with one stone. Instead of always remembering the cons of a partner, I remind myself that I'm aging, and toothless, and don't look or smell as good as I used to. Now hear me out..... I don't do that to self punish, I use facts as reasoning, and not only does it keep me solid in celibacy, but it also keeps me humble in acceptance so that no one can hurt me 😁. In fact, in society I never smile nor look nor talk. I've minimized my life to half an atom's existence. And have made it everything a woman wouldn't want on purpose. I don't have to try anymore. If the temptation ever arises, all I have to do is look at my life, then it goes away and I 😂😂😂💪. Of course I shower and am clean etc I'm talking about everything else. Stay down, stay low and enjoy life. I could make a long list of reasons to avoid women but that only creates bad outlook and hate. I'll be cool talking to women butits just gonna b casual convo really and I can even be friends with a woman without ever a drop of romantic interest. And joke around you know whatever. But if I hated them, I'd never be able to be that way. So with the above method it really helps, and hope someone finds it useful.
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I find it easy to be single.

But then i have a bit of an ugly past with partners so it colours my viewpoint.

But i enjoy it. I really truly enjoy being single. Not thinking about looking for a partner....not planning anything in my life for it.
I don't have to have this expectation that its gonna happen, coz i love single life.
I throw myself into things that interest me.
I can take all the time i want on things i like.

I love the pure selfishness of it.
And i only need to think about me: what it want, what i like, what i wanna do ....or not do.
I dont have to answer to anyone. I don't have to take a back seat to anyone, or compromise my ideals.

Id forgotten how good it is to be single. To take relationships and sex outta the equation.

Its just .....peaceful. Blissfully peaceful.