I read somewhere that women want their love to fulfill a dream

@in10RjFox are men usually higher class where you live???

@in10RjFox Why do you think all girls are hit upon by many boys? That is far from true.

@Ohplease47 In general, you can see men selecting a partner lower than their class, while girls going for class higher than what they are.

Hope this answers your question.

@CrazyMusicLover don't know if you are m or f. Ask a school or college gal and you will know the answer.

@in10RjFox Lol, I am a woman so I have my experience first hand. I have no deformity, my looks are average and no, I could count on my hands how many times some guy showed interest in me. I don't count the internet, that's not real life and not real interest because how can it be if they don't even see me?

@CrazyMusicLover depends on the country you are and how the society is towards gender.

If you can count with your hands it means at least 10 have hit upon you.. and not zero Have you tried hitting upon a guy ?

@in10RjFox Yes but at least 10 in the span of 15 years isn't "many boys" either and definitely not being spoiled to the point of adopting a view that I could choose.
I never openly hit upon a guy but I showed my interest by interacting more with them.

@CrazyMusicLover So you did not capitalise on any of the 10 ? missed all the buses ..


Well.. you can hit as many here .. what's the issue ?

@in10RjFox Why the hell would I be with someone just to be with someone if I'm not interested? What the hell? I value myself more than that. I picked one and was in a relationship with him for some time but if I wasn't interested in him, I'd rather be alone than settle.

@CrazyMusicLover Like how jobless people take up some job until they find the job they want. Either you be the job and interview OR you go for interviews where there is vacancy. Now you are complaining about those who get many job offers.

@in10RjFox I am not complaining. 😂 What did you deduct that from? I only need one person to be interested in me, the one I'm interested in. I DO NOT want others to be interested in me. It's better if they are not as it's just annoyance and if you didn't realize it yet, it's actually dangerous for a woman because every rejection means a possible encounter with a manchild psycho with inflated self-importance that might hurt her because of bruised ego. And why are you comparing a job to a partner? A source of income is essential for one's survival, a partner is not.

@CrazyMusicLover
deducted from this

How can you expect interest without any investment ? I expect interest only from the person with whom I have invested my time / knowledge/ dream. Similarly I have also allowed women to invest their time/ knowledge / dream with me.

😀 A source of Love is essential for one's survival too..
FYI ...There are many people surviving in this world without income.

@in10RjFox That is just stating a fact. That is not a complaint from my part.

And again you drag here something I never said. Where did I say I don't invest into my time into a person I'm interested in? I said I don't want others to be interested in me if I am not interested and not attracted to them. It's just a burden and a source of stress because I don't know when will some scorned individual snap and cause drama or try to hurt me.

By the way, what you said is disgusting.


What do you think? That you're doing the person some favour by lying to them that you love them if they see you as the right partner and you just use them as some temporary tool to unload into? Before you find the right one? That's disgusting and immoral on your part.

@CrazyMusicLover the problem with you is that you only see the negative side of everything but not the positive side. Could be the reason why you were unable to trust anyone.


It's those infatuated folks who say "I love you" like an entry card, as they know that they can't get in without using the password.

I have never said I love you to any of my lover, but I have made them love me, by showing them what true love is.

And there is no such thing as a right one. Ask anyone, and they would have contemplated before offering/ accepting love.

@in10RjFox most girls I ever knew dreamed of a classless society