Things at home are tense and I feel displaced.

I just want somewhere to stay where I'm comfortable and feel at home instead of constantly made to feel guilty.

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Perry1968 · M

Its so hard for younger people to rent or buy now which means many are stuck in positions they dont want to be in. Im sorry you have things the way you do. Bad atmospheres are terrible and awkward.

SinlessOnslaught · M

@Perry1968 And it's held over my head like this living condition is my fault.

Perry1968 · M

@SinlessOnslaught Im sorry. 😔 Honestly i live alone. My kids have nicer places than me. But i want that for them. Although id give them a key to here anytime with few conditions. Theres a old guy upstairs so my son aint h.mping no chick in my place 😆 Other than that id never hold anyone to ransom. Seems cruel.

SinlessOnslaught · M

@Perry1968 That's nice of you.

I'm not allowed to have preferences or even boundaries without the threat of being homeless.

Perry1968 · M

@SinlessOnslaught Wow. Im sorry. Can i ask how old you are?

SinlessOnslaught · M

@Perry1968 People will judge for it.

Perry1968 · M

@SinlessOnslaught Thats fair enough. I understand. I often doubt myself because of my wild past. I guilt parent to a point. But im always there for my kids who are 38 and 31. I understand totally if youd rather not share your age. Thats totally your right to do so. Please dont feel judged. Definitely not by me. Ive been homeless twice. Once at 19. Once at 47. 10 years ago after my wife passed. I made sure our son had the house. I told my kids i was living in a nice house with a mate. Truth is i was living in a empty cold flat. No water. Lights or heating but only for 3 moths. Was showering at my sisters. She knew but kept my secret. I dont gaf who judges me for that. Although i totally get we are individuals with individual mindsets. Is housing expensive to rent where you live? It is here. Its 3/4s of peoples wages in most areas.

SinlessOnslaught · M

@Perry1968 The cheapest apartments here would take 100% of my income each month.

Perry1968 · M

@SinlessOnslaught Its similar here for younger people they have no chance. Which makes me madder at those who hold people to ransom with threats. Im one of 6 sibblings. Im the youngest. My brother David was like it with his 2 sons. Petrified of him. Hes a right prick. I dont talk to him because of it. Honestly i truly hope good fortune comes your way so you can bd free of worrying about a very harsh reality. Cruel af imo. Im not dissing your parents mate. I just dont like people like that. I wish you all the very best in life. I truly do too. F.cking infuriates me tbh.

SinlessOnslaught · M

@Perry1968 I know you're not dissing my parents. Thank you. I hope the same.