Getting along with genders

I’ve realized I don’t always get along with a lot of women, and I think it’s partly because I just see things differently. Sometimes it feels like we’re on completely different wavelengths, and even small misunderstandings can turn into tension. I don’t think it’s anyone’s fault—I just get drained when interactions feel more complicated than they should, and it’s made me more aware of what kind of people I connect with. Any advice to change that?