How do you engage in conversations?

Do you ask a lot of questions?

Spend a lot of time doing small talk and general things but nothing really deep?

Do you dive into your life story?

Or do you tend to just answer what's been asked of you and leave it at that?

Overall do you find your conversations long and engaging or short and dissatisfying?

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bookerdana · M

I play it by ear but you can tell if somethings connecting ..my life story..not on a first meeting😆 but a sensitive person infers a lot from first meetings and it all proceeds from there..I'm shier on the internet than IRL

IreneSaxon · 51-55, F

@bookerdana I find so many are not interested in my stories unless I keep in all the sordid parts and then that is the only part they are interested in.

bookerdana · M

@IreneSaxon I would never want anyone to feel they had to include their sordid details,if they want to get into that they will,at the proper time

ArtieKat · M

@IreneSaxon That's both the attraction and the curse of anonymous sites. People will share things they wouldn't do in their offline lives and hope that others - like you - will be equally indiscreet, I guess

IreneSaxon · 51-55, F

@ArtieKat I find keeping secrets frustrating so here \i allow steam out of the pressure cooker! I do have many secrets thy make me feel old

ArtieKat · M

@IreneSaxon I quite understand