From where I stand, when someone keeps giving me less, fewer messages, fewer calls, less time together, leaving me out of plans...even after I’ve told them I miss those things, it hurts. It feels like they’re slowly slipping away, and that no matter how much I reach for them, they’re already halfway gone. Because when you want someone in your life, you make the effort.

That's when you have to move on and try to branch yourself out... you can't stick with the people who give you nothing. I know that means opening yourself to new people, when your experience is being with people who have hurt you, and how that's so difficult when you lose that. I think you do this, but keep trying to create new experiences, finding new people, even something that is a hobby or passion you love where you connect with people on something that gives to life to you.

If you only focus on the hurt, you also lose sight of your passions and interests, and all those that may be near you who share those same passions.

Sadly im going through a similar thing, and im starting to becomes suspicious too, there are signs, changes in their behaviour, that if you dont ignore them, will reveal the truth, i fight the urge to beg or plead or ask for an explanation, instead i stay calm and just watch and embrace the sadness that follows like a mist, the sadness that we are slowly, gradually fading out of each others lives and that they are okay with that for reasons known to them.

Try to remind yourself that you need to be good to yourself and stay grounded in reality, as people-pleasing, trying to force their hand or playing tit-for-tat games will only make it worse once this reaches the reveal stage and the truth finally comes out.

Im listening to this Ai advice about unravelling relationship its not bad:

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Sorry to be harsh but he's trying to establish a relationship with another woman while keeping you on the back burner in case it doesn't work out with her.

There's the exit - no return admission.

Unfortunately yes. Kinda cruel that they just don't tell you outright. And it proves they don't have respect for others.

I’ve gotten used to it now, isn’t that what they call ghosting?

Pretty much

Or because they are really busy and could be struggling with depression you never know for sure

Yep, that would be the time to show them to the door. 🚪

And close it firmly behind them.

Yes, that would be my interpretation. 🥺

Give them less, match their vibe, maybe time to walk away. 😞

Time to show them what less of you is, what it feels like. Turn your back and pick up your pieces

Either that or you did something they didn't like and don't have guts to tell you.

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