Nothing can save you from certain experiences

No matter how many books you read, how many videos you watch, how many stories you listen to, how many cautionary posts you may come across on social media, nothing can save you from some experiences. No matter how much love you get from those around you
My friend sent me messages at the height of my confusion and pain telling me that I'm loved....but her messages still didn't change a thing. I still wanted his love and wanted him to go back to who he was, value me and love me again. Parents did a lot of things, but I hated them and wanted him to love and forgive me although I did nothing wrong, to think I'm worthy of his love again because for the first time in my life, he made me feel seen, but that's how narcissists play with you. They make you feel seen in a way you've never felt before, then they suddenly take it all away

I also prayed so hard for God to save me from getting attached, not to let me get too attached to this guy, to help me keep a distance and avoid heartbreak. But major heartbreak still happened

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LadyGrace ·

Sometimes we can put ourselves into situations where we shouldn't be in the first place. We get a little warning signs in our head but we ignore them and that's not good. Actually problems are not there to hurt us but to help us. Sometimes we don't listen to God and try to force our way into someone's life anyway because we are so certain that they love us, but they are good liars. We must go through certain lessons and learn them well so that we're not hurt again so that is a good thing. We only do better, when we know better, right? That's what the hard lessons are for. To help us and wake us up to the fact that something is not working at all in our lives and must be changed so we can be happy again. Who needs a narcissist? They have nothing to offer and so we lose nothing because they gave nothing and had nothing to give. They don't know what love Is. The way to get ourselves out of the situation is only one way and that's to tell our own selves the truth of the matter and not what we want it to be or what we want to hear. So sometimes we have to go through heartache before we'll wake up and see life for what it really is and not what we want it to be. God never meant for us to be an abusive situations. That is not love. To a narcissist, love only means one thing and that is control. Tell yourself the truth and you will set yourself free. This is not the only man on the Earth and you don't deserve to be abused.