This is just so messed up…

I don’t really even know how to say this.
Or really, if I even SHOULD say this.
Here.
I’m not even looking for sympathy, but rather just a safe place to say such things….

My beautiful, vibrant sister ended her battle last Wednesday 💔

I am really struggling to comprehend the fact that it’s no longer “me and my two sisters”…

My heart is breaking in a way it should never be broken

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SomeMichGuy · M

Wow...no way to just offer a platitude.

A lot of others have had a similar loss, but don't let them tell you what you have to feel, how you have to handle your loss.

This is always personal, always nuanced, always special to those still here in ways which another cannot know.

But I do know that such losses are heart-rending, you clearly truly loved your sister. I am sorry you lost her in that way, and at this time. I hope the worst of your pain of your very personal loss can be blunted and relieved in a monthish...but grieve on your terms, as you have to, in order to honor the reality of your long relationship!