how do you deal with feelings of insecurity

i get this a lot, i have lived alone for 18 years in a little council flat... i have no friends or support system anymore apart from my elderly mum and dad, and they live far away....i just have times where i get frightened of ending up on my own and what would i do if i get problems in life and i no longer have my mum and dad around to help me? that would be a nightmare, to face this life completely on my own.

insecurity is a terrible thing, when you're on your own and fear being left to work through life on your own and work through life's problems on your own......i get very lonely at times........i wish i was that little boy again who was at home being taken care of, all responsibility's gone and just enjoying life with my friends outside.....but that era has long gone.............now i'm an adult with mental health problems living alone...with just my mum and dad left...plus, i am getting older.

any thoughts?

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Number5 · 22-25, M

i would say try to start indulging yourself in things that you love to do. Start going to church, you will meet people there, they will love you it's like a spiritual family. I don't know what religion you follow but there so many Christ centered churches where you would find people who will love you.
you will find your family and where you will find God.
Know that it is never too late for anything, dreaming of something itself is experiencing it in a way that you pursue it everyday.

if you are afraid that you might not find a partner, there is always someone for everyone i believe.

i really hope this helps