Do you ever wonder if suddenly everyone knows all of your secrets?

I have this fear often, largely because it happened at my work, and I was suddenly unemployed and hoist on the petard of my own kinks. But my personal life was spared, until my dreams and daydreams find me startled by the thought of the rest of my world knowing my shame...

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Iwillwait · M

What do you mean, you were suddenly unemployed? What were their grounds for termination?

Flowchart · 56-60, M

@Iwillwait I overshared, in a nutshell.

Iwillwait · M

@Flowchart You overstated where? To whom?

Queendragonfly · 31-35, F

@Flowchart Overshared what? Was it requested or did you just feel like sex venting lol 😂

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Flowchart · 56-60, M

@Queendragonfly I was an idiot, short answer.

Queendragonfly · 31-35, F

@Flowchart If you talk about your kinks to a coworker who haven't even asked, it can be filed as harassment.

If you thought it would have no consequences then you maybe needed this lesson.

Queendragonfly · 31-35, F

@Flowchart They know all your secrets because you let them.

Queendragonfly · 31-35, F

@Flowchart I hope you are more careful with your next job. You don't want a reputation.

Flowchart · 56-60, M

@Queendragonfly I have learned this lesson. My post was meant to ask, when you lose control of some secrets, do you worry you might lose them all?

Queendragonfly · 31-35, F

@Flowchart Hmm.. Not really my problem. But I would probably go to a priest and sin away in the booth if I felt like I had to tell someone