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OogieBoogie · F
Worst ?
Prolly the time I got stalked .
It got scary when it reached into my private life: where I lived, what car I drove, threatened me and my kids .
Took me a few weeks to add it all up and work out who it was .
I was horrified that it was someone I knew in real life .
But it affected me. Fear like that doesn't just fade once you work out who it is .
It showed me just how fucked up people can be.
Prolly the time I got stalked .
It got scary when it reached into my private life: where I lived, what car I drove, threatened me and my kids .
Took me a few weeks to add it all up and work out who it was .
I was horrified that it was someone I knew in real life .
But it affected me. Fear like that doesn't just fade once you work out who it is .
It showed me just how fucked up people can be.
OogieBoogie · F
@Loretta78 i was coping untill he mentioned my kids ...and that just threw me .
But, that threw me into sleuth mode .
I researched, spoke to police, spoke to some tech experts and got educated - it narrowed my search down.
I poured over everything he said .....and found my evidence that it was someone who had to know me in real life .
They fucked up.
I went and confronted them .
They denied it, then blamed someone else for it ....then changed their story.
Then had nothing to stand on, or say ...they just stood there - looking stupid.
I shamed them for threatening children ...fucking coward.
Not heard from them since .🤷
But it shows how sick people can be when there is a screen of anonymity to protect them .
But, that threw me into sleuth mode .
I researched, spoke to police, spoke to some tech experts and got educated - it narrowed my search down.
I poured over everything he said .....and found my evidence that it was someone who had to know me in real life .
They fucked up.
I went and confronted them .
They denied it, then blamed someone else for it ....then changed their story.
Then had nothing to stand on, or say ...they just stood there - looking stupid.
I shamed them for threatening children ...fucking coward.
Not heard from them since .🤷
But it shows how sick people can be when there is a screen of anonymity to protect them .
Loretta78 · 46-50, F
@OogieBoogie You are so right.
I am just glad that apparently they’ve stopped now with threatening you and your kids.
You know, I had a longterm-friend here who left me after 6 years of daily contact without to say at least goodbye.
And actually I know everything about him (so as he knows about me too).
I know his real name, phone number, address and really everything and it would be easy for me to stalk him (and his wife and his 6 kids).
But although I was really, really hurt when he left after 6 years without to say anything, I didn’t stalk him because I think when he doesn’t talk to me anymore it means, that he doesn’t want to have contact with me anymore. And although I am so much hurt I respect that.
But to stalk someone and even threat family and kids means no respect at all and is cowardly.
I am glad that they stopped stalking you.
Just be very careful with people who have the possibility to hide their anonymity behind a screen.
I am just glad that apparently they’ve stopped now with threatening you and your kids.
You know, I had a longterm-friend here who left me after 6 years of daily contact without to say at least goodbye.
And actually I know everything about him (so as he knows about me too).
I know his real name, phone number, address and really everything and it would be easy for me to stalk him (and his wife and his 6 kids).
But although I was really, really hurt when he left after 6 years without to say anything, I didn’t stalk him because I think when he doesn’t talk to me anymore it means, that he doesn’t want to have contact with me anymore. And although I am so much hurt I respect that.
But to stalk someone and even threat family and kids means no respect at all and is cowardly.
I am glad that they stopped stalking you.
Just be very careful with people who have the possibility to hide their anonymity behind a screen.
OogieBoogie · F
@Loretta78 it's sad that we never realy get to know people .
You think you .....but you dont.
People have secrets, and dark sides and hidden traits that we never know of .
Even myself ....this one experience bought out stuff in me that I never knew was there - I got venehemt and vicious.
The hardest part is letting go ....like you did .
Not following.
Not searching for answers .
Not digging deeper .
Just letting go .
I think you are wise to do so.
Sometimes it's not worth finding out - you only find out stuff you wish you never had.
You think you .....but you dont.
People have secrets, and dark sides and hidden traits that we never know of .
Even myself ....this one experience bought out stuff in me that I never knew was there - I got venehemt and vicious.
The hardest part is letting go ....like you did .
Not following.
Not searching for answers .
Not digging deeper .
Just letting go .
I think you are wise to do so.
Sometimes it's not worth finding out - you only find out stuff you wish you never had.