i wish i wasn’t the type to hold a grudge 😩

@HotPizza71 been holding this grudge since December 😔 my aunt betrayed me big time. She wants to come see the baby but I’m like no 😞 she really really really hurt me.

@DarianPaige ok, understandable...
You've let her know how you feel?

@HotPizza71 oh yes in December I let her and her husband have an ear full. Haven’t talked to them since and don’t plan on it. She called my mom asking if she can come to the hospital and I told my mom nope

@DarianPaige then she needs to reach out, apologize,and let the dust settle before coming to see you,when with mum and partner maybe x

@HotPizza71 agreed!! She hasn’t not once apologized, even in December when I was screaming at her and crying she didn’t once acknowledge what she did wrong lol

@DarianPaige well,you've said your piece,you have much more pressing matters to think about.Your new bubba xx
Time will only tell how this unfolds ,live for today, relish this moment xx

@DarianPaige Then no, she no appologise, see doesnt get to be in you or your babys life.

Good for you keeping the negatively out.

@DarianPaige ehh… screw that.. holding a grudge is insisting on being bitter even after someone has attempted to make amends properly. You not letting someone back into your life who hurt you, and isn’t even willing to acknowledge what they’ve done nor apologize.. that’s just being smart on your part.