@spice1 Maybe you would have had less fun with her if you had married her? (Not sure if my question is grammatically correct but I hope you get what I mean...)
@helenS yes I get your meaning, my ex-wife was always making excuses to run off on her own, I would always take her back but eventually I had enough and divorced her, her best friend was always there for me so naturally I've always thought she would've made me a better wife.