Where do people get these hilarious ideas and why do they insist on letting them live inside their heads?

I got more information on why people are afraid of me. I'm seen as a ringleader with a short temper. I'm too blunt for some people's liking. I was told I give off gangster vibes which is funny because my own family overseas thought I was in a gang too. For the record I am not in a gang nor am I a gangster. Correction actually it''s my demeanor that's gangster/roughneck. I mean what do you expect I'm from the school of hard knocks over here. I'm sorry for not being Mr. Mollycoddle let me frame my words nicely to soften the blow. No way I'm telling you exactly how it is no softening because it needs to be said.