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rckt148 · 61-69, M
that I really did expect something back in return ,my brain said it was out of love ,but had that been true ,I never would have said "after all I have done for you when it ended " ,guess I was not as unconditional as I thought ,but I'm working on that now ,I really try to give ,and expect nothing back in return
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Sagey47 · 26-30, F
@rckt148: love is never unconditional, don't think it is. People need things, so do you.
I'm sorry about your wife sounds like my parents. But now you know so that's what you need to change not what love is, just how you do it and unconditional love isn't it. It's overbearing trust me.
I'm sorry about your wife sounds like my parents. But now you know so that's what you need to change not what love is, just how you do it and unconditional love isn't it. It's overbearing trust me.
rckt148 · 61-69, M
@Sagey47: not to sound like a jerk ,love can be unconditional , not one person in my life owes me anything ,and I am a very blessed man .
they say when you reach my age and you can count five friends you know you can count on you are blessed ,I actually have more then 5 friends who have been friends since we were kids .
I have let people down ,and people have let me down ,
my youngest daughter is 35 and my oldest 39 ,my son is 8 ,
Women have come and women have gone ,just found out today my ex who almost killed me leaving now wants me back ,
I have forgiven her after 5 years of pain ,a heart attack and a trip to the nut ward ,but at the time I would have done anything to have her back ,but now ,I know I will always love her ,but I am not willing to do it again .
But all of my kids have spit in my face at one time or another ,but now I know my family is more important to me then anything ,except my Savior ,
Nothing they can do will ever stop me loving them, nothing ,
so sorry to disagree with you ,but as a Dad ,I know better .
As to a mate ,I know me now ,I know what I want ,and I will never settle again just not to be alone .
I was married at 16 ,and have been in a relationship every since except the last 2 yrs ,,I found out I am just fine alone ,I do not need someone to feel happy or complete ,and now ladies actually tell me they want me .
it feels good to say I am flattered ,but I am fine on my own .
But ,if the right one does come along ,my love this time will be unconditional ,as I am with my kids ,no strings this time ,but I will know that I know its right ,because I do have some qualifications that are not negotiable ,if they are on the same page with that ,,pretty good chance we will make it ,no strings required ,we both agree to the terms
they say when you reach my age and you can count five friends you know you can count on you are blessed ,I actually have more then 5 friends who have been friends since we were kids .
I have let people down ,and people have let me down ,
my youngest daughter is 35 and my oldest 39 ,my son is 8 ,
Women have come and women have gone ,just found out today my ex who almost killed me leaving now wants me back ,
I have forgiven her after 5 years of pain ,a heart attack and a trip to the nut ward ,but at the time I would have done anything to have her back ,but now ,I know I will always love her ,but I am not willing to do it again .
But all of my kids have spit in my face at one time or another ,but now I know my family is more important to me then anything ,except my Savior ,
Nothing they can do will ever stop me loving them, nothing ,
so sorry to disagree with you ,but as a Dad ,I know better .
As to a mate ,I know me now ,I know what I want ,and I will never settle again just not to be alone .
I was married at 16 ,and have been in a relationship every since except the last 2 yrs ,,I found out I am just fine alone ,I do not need someone to feel happy or complete ,and now ladies actually tell me they want me .
it feels good to say I am flattered ,but I am fine on my own .
But ,if the right one does come along ,my love this time will be unconditional ,as I am with my kids ,no strings this time ,but I will know that I know its right ,because I do have some qualifications that are not negotiable ,if they are on the same page with that ,,pretty good chance we will make it ,no strings required ,we both agree to the terms
Sagey47 · 26-30, F
@rckt148 I do agree. When it comes to children love have can be an unconditional ... Or so it seems. I understand you look at your age and see that that has obviously given you something but that all being said how does loving your children make you feel?
Lol I know too well about having a select amount of friends but things change and thars what life is about. You'd have to be naive to really think there isn't a reason for everything
Lol I know too well about having a select amount of friends but things change and thars what life is about. You'd have to be naive to really think there isn't a reason for everything
@Sagey47: idk i just don't have any with me atm ._.
Sagey47 · 26-30, F
😂😂😂 ok
Sagey47 · 26-30, F
@81redhead: best of luck to you
PoizonApple · 41-45, F
Sagey47 · 26-30, F
How are you dealing with that?
Syktur · 26-30, M
@Sagey47: Fairly well considering that three years ago I was almost dead...
Sagey47 · 26-30, F
@svanthor: happy you're not but keep getting the help you need to be free of that
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
Sleeping with a certain woman.
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
@Sagey47 In time you can make that decision.
Sagey47 · 26-30, F
@MrBrownstone lol fair enough
Nefarious · 26-30, M
Being so wild when I first got to college, if I had had more restraint, I'd have realised why I was feeling the way I was, and I would have been a few steps ahead in my master plan by now.
Nefarious · 26-30, M
Yeah but naw, fuck that. I want my money and time back lol.
polyandrym66 · 70-79, M
Ending my first marriage... She was the love of my life.. I really screwed up..
polyandrym66 · 70-79, M
@Sagey47: Oh, there is always both sides doing wrong, when a divorce happens.. I was self absorbed and busy making money.
A "cold fish" in our relationship.
A "cold fish" in our relationship.
Not killing myself as a chilf