Thoughts Away / Survival

@SW-User I agree with you. I say take in your negatives, turn them into acceptance to be celebrated, let them exist and grow up with life; not everything has to be positive. cough.

@thewindupbirdchronicles The over positivity needs to stop. Ignoring when things are plain wrong and as I’ve been told 100000000000000x, “just smile, you’re so pretty when you smile”… watch me rage, because that’s the truth I’m entitled to feel. Just because it’s hard to look at doesn’t mean it needs be a positive.

Like my uncle molesting every female in the family. And the hard things most people endure in their lives. We can’t make that positive, but accepting it and learning from it can change the course from destructive. Most of the time that’s the best you can hope for.

And if you’ve really been through it, simple balance is the greatest peace.

@SW-User I also say, within limits, celebrate life in all its forms. You don't need to change a negative into a positive. It is just what it is. Some I have seen in life, who shut off, when something is not positive is positively numbing. Let those emotions climb in, let them exist as they were, and are. (I'm not saying don't learn from them)