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I'm More Confused.

Well, here's a new post, an update I could say about my last post.

So I talked with my boyfriend and we got most things figured out.

But then he said how he wanted 100% of my attention just didn't want to give me 100% of his attention?? Which kind of makes no sense, because he does know how I get when I give 100% and he doesn't give 100% back. He did admit to being jealous of when I do anything else in my day.

I know most of y'all don't really know what to say, but any things you could think of on why he might want this? Ik I already said what he admitted to, and I guess that would explain, but kind of makes no sense.

I mean, does this mean he doesn't trust me or something?

He just said this: "i just ... idk when i see you having more fun or having more interest with another person then me i wanna fukin crawl in a hole and disappear. and just you talking to another guy makes my stomach hurt rlly fuking bad" (10:32 PM EST time)

I wasn't trying to make him bring anything up like that, and I wasn't even being an asshole when I asked or say anything that'd make him feel the need to say that, other than saying how I seem to be more chill when talking to guys cuz every girl in school is toxic, overdramatic and filled with drama.
SW-User Best Comment
He is either very insecure or very territorial, you choose which one fits best.

i just ... idk when i see you having more fun or having more interest with another person then me i wanna fukin crawl in a hole and disappear

To me this screams insecurities and fear of abandonment. Why crawl in hole? Why not join in on the fun or plan something else equally if not more fun?. If another person = another man then it's understandable that it doesn't sit well with him as men are and should be territorial but even then, feeling like disappearing is the wrong response.

Get that man to the gym and have him hang around real men that will teach him how to control his emotions. A man should lead with logic not feelings.
MassiveMelancholyNerd · 18-21, F
@SW-User I tried speaking to him, and seeing if I could figure out which one he is without just asking, and he seems to be a mix of both?? But I'll probably end up asking him a few more questions, referring to what you're saying.

humidtiddies · 22-25, F
Immediately no, screams more issues in the long run, with you ending up being hurt, my suggestion, is leave while you still can
MassiveMelancholyNerd · 18-21, F
@humidtiddies it is kind of hard to do that. Mainly because we have been together for a year and 2 months now, and I get attached so easily, any tips on how to though?
humidtiddies · 22-25, F
@MassiveMelancholyNerd your mind is gonna try and keep you fixated on him, so keep yourself fixated on something else, find a hobby, go out with friends, and hold yourself accountable
RebelFox · 36-40, F
He’s incredibly selfish. Are you really okay with that?
MassiveMelancholyNerd · 18-21, F
@RebelFox I mean...I guess you could say he is being quite selfish. But me being me, I try and look past it, no I'm not really okay with it, but if it's what he wants, I guess that's how its going to be, yk?
Jinxie · 51-55, F
Sounds like he’s trying to control you. No one should tell you that you can’t have male friends.
It means hes a 🚩
Jinxie · 51-55, F

 
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