Has someone turned love into a horrible nightmare for you?

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Oster1 · M

Yes and it changes a person and some unfortunate souls, never get over it. People are fallible creatures. One learns not to put a person on a pedestal. Don't invest more than you can stand to lose. One good thing is you learn how not to let others hurt you:)

FarAway · 56-60, F

Absolutely! It's rejuvenating to tell yourself, that it won't happen again

Oster1 · M

It sure is and years later you ask yourself, "what in the world, did I ever see in her"...... actually, she did me a favor🙂@Lifeafterlove:

FarAway · 56-60, F

@Oster1: In all honesty I don't pay too much attention to the person behind the pain. It's me who I focus on. I am the one that should be changing. Guess we all have our own coping mechanisms

Oster1 · M

I agree with that and always blame myself and choices. Still, some folks are empty inside with no conscience:)