lag1956 · 61-69, F
The heart so often rules the head. I feel your pain.
NewBaz · 61-69, M
You're right, but that's the person I am, and I am comfortable with that. Just need to learn to set boundaries and protect my heart, but it's difficult for me, especially on days when I'm low and feel like I need her.
SW-User
I'm sorry. That is so difficult. Maybe your absence will make her reevaluate her life choices. I don't think you can stop loving her or being hurt. Do something that you didn't do together. Try to make new memories.
SW-User
@NewBaz: I really am sorry. You are in a horrible position. ((Hugs))
Alexz7272 · 31-35, F
Going to sound cliche but honestly just time. Get involved in some clubs or sports and keep yourself occupied.
Socialclutz · 36-40, M
what kind of drug?
NewBaz · 61-69, M
Alcohol
Socialclutz · 36-40, M
I guess I haven't experienced a near one develop dependency on alcohol. I hope her the best though
Tatsumi · 31-35, M
Having been in the drug world off and on since I was 14, you should consider your girlfriend dead until she proves otherwise. Because she essentially is.
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