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Every woman must at some point master sleeping with the enemy.

Ha you say? Thats a crazy idea right?
But most women have given their hearts away at some point only to realize that their partner isin't fully committed or is actively working against them.
It could be that he/she simply is cheating and is destroying you that way little by little.
Or it could be that your partner/ husband has told a major lie that changes the total dynamic or your relationship such as hiding money while you are working two jobs.

Or maybe your boyfriend is a great guy but when he is angry he says things that no one should ever say and that cannot be recovered from.

So maybe to preserve the family we go on for a bit.
Perhaps because we are just too busy right now to give in to think about this betrayal we have to put it to the side to take care of business.

A person knowing and seeing the best of you but giving you their worst is not a friend or a lover despite what physical acts may come.
This can happen to men or women but my post is specific to what I see many women go through because I am a woman and I think that we master the art of being strong in that particular way. To give yourself over physically to an enemy.
Simply carrying on with a cancer of a person in our life.
It isin't always weak to stay. It depends on many factors and timing.
SW-User
It happened to me after I got engaged and i called off the wedding after that.

I don't want to sleep with someone i have no feelings for and that is why I'm still single
An unfortunate truth. I’m not sure it’s always gender specific, though. Men most likely have their own reasons for sleeping with the enemy. We aren’t perfect either.
Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F
so true, so moving
Boundaries are most important. Betrayal is beyond words. Having once slept with a snake, I know how one feels so I cast him out. One of the best decisions of my life. Learning requires time. There isn't enough time. Sounds like you are learning about time.
SW-User
Are there varying levels... like... not an "enemy", but maybe not the friend they thought they had?
SW-User
Is this a permanent condition?... that you only "give yourself over"... to your husband?
olderuncle944 · 70-79, M
I find this post streight on correct it happens till a person gets fed up and leaves
PassingThrough · 41-45, M
Wow… this is true even for a guy in this situation too
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