Honestly tho

Why do women say "I'm fine" if they in fact are not fine. My new girlfriend was clearly upset so I asked "what's wrong", and she said " I'm fine" but she clearly wasn't because when I said okay she got even more upset. It makes no sense.

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HazyDayz · 36-40

She's saying she's not fine but she expects you to infer that from her tone and body language. It's like she is searching for a deeper connection between the two of you.

JaylenPerez15 · 18-21, M

@HazyDayz I could tell she was upset but I didn't know why and when I asked what's wrong she told me she was fine, I just said okay because I thought she wanted to be left alone

HazyDayz · 36-40

@JaylenPerez15 it’s also possible she’s being irrational. Hard to say though obv.
Next time you could ask her if she wants to talk or be left alone maybe.

JaylenPerez15 · 18-21, M

@HazyDayz alright thanks for the advice.

fernie2

@JaylenPerez15 If she says "fine" hug her. Don't get upset at "fine"......just be loving and there for her. Tell her your there if she needs to talk. Then she'll be fine!

JaylenPerez15 · 18-21, M

@fernie2 noted