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I Should Always Follow My Gut Instinct

Well I tracked down the evidence and my partner is indeed cheating on me. World now lop sided and my only focus now is on our kids....

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Peaceful · F

I'm so sorry.

Please focus on your kids while doing your best to be amicable to their mom. Kids see and know more than adults realize.

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Peaceful · F

@DarkShadows thank you for having the courage to share.

DarkShadows · 56-60, M

@Peaceful I could give out his full name but I will not stoop to that level.

Peaceful · F

@DarkShadows you're a wise man that rises above the pain. I applaud you.

SW-User

There’s always a why and two sides to every story in this regard.

I work with a lady who’s husband cheated on her with someone he worked then she slept with their divorce attorney …. After that her ex insisted she was the only one in the wrong

People hurt people and people use people best to deal with it as grown ups privately imo

DarkShadows · 56-60, M

@SW-User I understand where your coming from and agree that it should be resolved privately and that will be the case. Just one thing. I have done nothing but love my wife for the last 20 years.

SW-User

Yeah apparently he loved his wife too and his co worker.

Private is best. @DarkShadows

SW-User

Wow. Sorry to hear this. Hugs

DarkShadows · 56-60, M

@SW-User Thanks for the hugs...

BrandonWyatt36 · 36-40, M

Again another reason im glad ive been single going on almost i years. Dont have to deal with that worry of being cheated on..hope things get better for you tho :(

Jabulani

is there much conflict between you both

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DarkShadows · 56-60, M

@Jabulani Read my posts. I sat down with her a number of time and she wants her space and privacy as I am over bearing and controlling. Now I see why she is saying those things to deflect from the truth.

Jabulani

@DarkShadows all that matters is your child, and I will read your posts.

Jabulani

@DarkShadows you are right, she's "gaslighting" you should keep a record of this information

Jenny1234 · 56-60, F

Did you confront her?

DarkShadows · 56-60, M

@Jenny1234 Not yet. From the feedback I got from an ealier post, I have been biding my time and collecting information. Honestly not sure how to handle.

Jabulani

@DarkShadows perfect you are doing the right steps... please don't let her get suspicious so you can do the right thing for your kid

DownTheStreet · 56-60, M

What is happening?

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

Sorry to hear that

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