Who among you are perverts?

mikeylyksit · 41-45, M

First we have to define "pervert". The way most people use the word is WRONG. Example. 18 year old drop-dead gorgeous girl wearing a very short skirt walks by a group of older men who all turn to stare at her (especially her cute little butt). Many would call those men perverts, but it would be PERVERTED if they didn't notice her. Perverted means unusual desires. Older men being attracted to sexy young ladies is the exact opposite of perverted. But that word "pervert" is often used by older women to put down older men who prefer to date younger women. The bizarre logic is that if a 40 year old guy is not attracted to a 40 year old girl but prefers a hot young college chick, then he's a pervert. If the term is used correctly, I'm not a pervert. But I would expect many middle age women to call me a pervert, because they use the word wrong.