Why do I always feel the need to be consistently speaking with someone romantically ? 💀

It’s literally the most annoying- 🤬🙄

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same😬 i have trust n attachment issues so when i like someone and trust them romantically i get obsessed with them n feel the need to talk to them constantly but i also hate talking with people which makes me burnt out so quickly when i do but then if i don’t then i get jealous that they’re talking to someone else😅

Stark

@poisonouscupcake same, I have an anxious attachment style so that pretty much describes it in most cases.

poisonouscupcake · 22-25, F

@Stark it’s so exhausting to deal with, either you do what you feel like you need to and talk to them constantly in which you’re just burning yourself out from talking n you run out of things to talk about or you risk looking disinterested

marsbar · F

@Stark @poisonouscupcake This seems so complicated & exhausting. 😟

poisonouscupcake · 22-25, F

@marsbar idk about stark but i think part of my relationship issues that i mentioned are cos i read a lot of toxic fan fiction when i was too young😅 it set the wrong ideals into my brain

marsbar · F

@poisonouscupcake I see. I used to be a romantic too, but I’ve become more realistic over the years.

JimboSaturn · 51-55, M

@marsbar lol

JimboSaturn · 51-55, M

@marsbar my lov[quote]ove has changed to be more down to earth [/quote]

marsbar · F

@JimboSaturn Lol. Down to earth is good. Better than having your head stuck in the clouds.