stripped of all reasons to live all I am is spite.

@KristinaM I actually just tell people this shit these days because some boys lord it over girls like oh I'll kill myself if you leave me so i'm like

I will survive without you and turn my life into something determined to shove in your face what you left behind. ;p
Your loss bae! not my problem anymore.

because I guess I want them to know that one thing I won' lord over them is the threat i'll actually off myself. That's another form of emotional abuse you don't have to worry about coming from this direction.

@PDXNative1986 That’s good. I’ve definitely heard guys use that threat. You’re right. It’s abuse.

@KristinaM Honestly though on YouTube I saw this.... [media=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bJC6jGRnlR4]



What am I supposed to say to this shit? At once I'm horrified but I don't have time to cluck my tongue in disapproval because i'm too busy taking advantage of all the opportunity that now presents itself now that they're all older and wiser.

In other words my Response to these jackasses and there are many of them is SAVAGE

"Cool. More for me, less for you."



500 of these idiots thumbed this shit up.

@PDXNative1986 Thank you for this. That’s a very informative video. And that’s the clearest definition of a simp that I’ve ever heard. You’re definitely a nice guy.

@KristinaM As long as as these girls didn't end up getting knocked up with 3 kids I don't actually want because my interest in women is NOT that I want to raise kids with them I want so much else out of them to be taught things to learn about the world to learn the languages my partner speaks and so many other things I really do not concern myself with all the mistakes they're likely to put us all through after she turns 18 and between then and about 27.

Lot of girls make the bad boy mistake but they wise up and its like IDGAF so long as they were careful about how they went about things....

I'll definately date someone over the age of 30 so long as she isn't a single mother... asnd evern then if I'm interested I'd seriously consider if I wanted to deal with it. id obviously demand a lot more from her though.

@KristinaM Also WHY I don't care? I got woke about womens issues.

REALLY woke.... Internalized misogyny is rampant in our society and I for one...

I am over it. I'm not even mad I get why they go for these monsters society taught them thats all they deserved so thats what they went for.

now they're learning not to listen to those people and I want to be there for that.

@PDXNative1986 I’m glad more people are becoming aware of the systemic misogyny. And you’re right about kids. Being a parent influences every choice you make for the foreseeable future. I’m happy with my choice, but I definitely understand the childless by choice people.

@KristinaM the thing that makes me a little bit hesitant to be like nah !!!@#$ single moms is that I might not want kids but if I were to spell out a personality type that tugs at heartstrings in a major way its the highly sensitive and highly empathic and the very nurturing types tend to want kids those two things tend to march hand in hand.

what made my life Fairy tale territory is I ended up with Someone MOTHERLY but not a mom. Someone who didn't mind.

It's honestly part of our role play. She relishes being there for me....

I ... tend to fall for the ones who are its the worst because being diposed to harbor romantic sentiments for those who are there for you has a way at times of destroying your social supports because quite often women are willing to be there but don't necessarily want to be pursued and it's like

I...

can't.

help.

it.

How can you blame me? Who would want to be with someone they couldn't confide in nad whats wrong with them?