I'm about to turn 21 soon, yet I feel like a kid. Hear me out below...
I go to university, work, pay rent with my parents. Have excellent credit score. Pay my car. Work out. Don't do drugs or don't want to consume alcohol. Eat healthy. And meditate every once in a while.
The thing is I am a tomboy. I mix my clothes with some femininity and some masculinity. Yet I'm still a woman.
I look at these other women who are older than me, who are more feminine than me and I think to myself, "Is this what an adult woman should be like?"
I wonder to myself if it's okay for me to still be a tomboy.
I do all those things in the first paragraph, but I still feel like a kid. I notice around me that "adults" don't really joke around with the kid inside them. Rather it's mundane and monotonous humor with adults. I notice that adult women, I also don't really relate to either. I don't fit in anywhere. Do I need to just "Grow up?" I don't know.
The thing is I am a tomboy. I mix my clothes with some femininity and some masculinity. Yet I'm still a woman.
I look at these other women who are older than me, who are more feminine than me and I think to myself, "Is this what an adult woman should be like?"
I wonder to myself if it's okay for me to still be a tomboy.
I do all those things in the first paragraph, but I still feel like a kid. I notice around me that "adults" don't really joke around with the kid inside them. Rather it's mundane and monotonous humor with adults. I notice that adult women, I also don't really relate to either. I don't fit in anywhere. Do I need to just "Grow up?" I don't know.
