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Is my friend ghosting me?

I have a friend. Nothing remotely bad has ever happened between us. I've known her for about 10 years.Sometimes we go couple months without speaking. She reaches out to me slightly more than I reach out to her but I always listen to her, encourage her and I have really really been there for her in body and spirt thru some major life events which just last time she meantioned this to me how I have always been there for her.

I visited her about 2 months ago at her new house. We chatted. I told her I was happy for her.
6 wks ago she texted me asking for a referral to a mechanic. I gave it to her.
Thats the last I heard from her.
I texted her as usual last week saying Hi. I got nothing. I waited 3 days and texted Hi again asking hows everything. No response.
We often go 2 months without speaking and she works nights so I think maybe she forgot to respond (never happen before)
I waited till today and left her a voicemail and sent a Whatsapp.
I will leave it at that.
She stayed with me for a month last year in between moves. She has a man in her life now for more than 6 months. Could he be a reason?
Am I being ghosted? Have I reached out to her too much or just right?
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iamnikki · 31-35, F
Hmm, sounds like you've reached out to her enough.
Maybe she lost her phone or something?
Have you figured it out?