Is my friend ghosting me?

I have a friend. Nothing remotely bad has ever happened between us. I've known her for about 10 years.Sometimes we go couple months without speaking. She reaches out to me slightly more than I reach out to her but I always listen to her, encourage her and I have really really been there for her in body and spirt thru some major life events which just last time she meantioned this to me how I have always been there for her.

I visited her about 2 months ago at her new house. We chatted. I told her I was happy for her.
6 wks ago she texted me asking for a referral to a mechanic. I gave it to her.
Thats the last I heard from her.
I texted her as usual last week saying Hi. I got nothing. I waited 3 days and texted Hi again asking hows everything. No response.
We often go 2 months without speaking and she works nights so I think maybe she forgot to respond (never happen before)
I waited till today and left her a voicemail and sent a Whatsapp.
I will leave it at that.
She stayed with me for a month last year in between moves. She has a man in her life now for more than 6 months. Could he be a reason?
Am I being ghosted? Have I reached out to her too much or just right?

LadyGrace ·

I don't think you've done anything wrong. People get tied up at times and yes, a new man in her life could be taking up her time. That just seems to happen automatically. I know this is hurtful, but she may just be feeling a bit overwhelmed, trying to keep up with everything. I'm sorry this happened and you're hurting, but at least you know she's ok. I don't think she's ghosting you. If she's a real friend, she'll come around. You've let her know you miss her, so try not to worry. You've done your part, so try to relax, take care of yourself, and keep busy. I think she'll come around. And I think she would have let you know if she was upset. I think I'd let her make the next move. Hopefully, she'll miss you and give you a call. I wish you the best. 🤗