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Is my friend ghosting me?

I have a friend. Nothing remotely bad has ever happened between us. I've known her for about 10 years.Sometimes we go couple months without speaking. She reaches out to me slightly more than I reach out to her but I always listen to her, encourage her and I have really really been there for her in body and spirt thru some major life events which just last time she meantioned this to me how I have always been there for her.

I visited her about 2 months ago at her new house. We chatted. I told her I was happy for her.
6 wks ago she texted me asking for a referral to a mechanic. I gave it to her.
Thats the last I heard from her.
I texted her as usual last week saying Hi. I got nothing. I waited 3 days and texted Hi again asking hows everything. No response.
We often go 2 months without speaking and she works nights so I think maybe she forgot to respond (never happen before)
I waited till today and left her a voicemail and sent a Whatsapp.
I will leave it at that.
She stayed with me for a month last year in between moves. She has a man in her life now for more than 6 months. Could he be a reason?
Am I being ghosted? Have I reached out to her too much or just right?
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FaeLuna · 31-35, F
It's possible, I suppose. Maybe she's busy and simply forgot to respond. Maybe something's going on with this guy. Maybe she's just having a hard time and can't deal with social interactions at the moment. I think you've done what you can to keep the friendship alive, and now it's up to her to continue it. Without knowing what's going on on her side, it's tough to really say what she's doing.