Teach me how to love

I’m willing to 😣@marsbar

@Fantasyproject Meeting the right guy is important too.

I have @marsbar

@Fantasyproject Then what’s wrong?

Trust issues @marsbar

@Fantasyproject That’s a big one. You’ll need to resolve that before you guys can move forward in your relationship.

I’m trying to be more trusting and communicate better @marsbar

@Fantasyproject That’s a good start. Sounds like he needs to prove himself to you.

@marsbar thought it said balls at first

I feel like my requests are coming off like a demand even though that’s not how I meant it @marsbar

@Fantasyproject Tone & how you say something can come across as harsh, so just be cognizant that you’re not coming across as blaming & attacking.

@MartinTheFirst What? 😂

I just be so fed with repetition, so I say it but with anger sometimes. Which is something I’m working on @marsbar

@Fantasyproject Well, if he’s constantly giving you a legitimate reason not to trust him, that’s a problem, & you’ll need to consider whether or not it’s worth staying with him.

He tries but when I start overthinking, he feels like I’m being controlling. @marsbar

@Fantasyproject There’s trying & stopping completely. If he can’t stop, then reconsider.

Sorry I meant trying to prove to me that he’s trustworthy @marsbar

@Fantasyproject I see. Well, if it’s not improving & you just remain suspicious of him, you’ll never really be truly happy with each other.

@Fantasyproject It all comes down to what exactly it is that he is doing, without knowing that we can't give you proper feedback.

It’s random smart comments, attitudes for no reason, no communication like usual @MartinTheFirst

Yea, that’s why I’m working on myself so I can react off logic instead of emotion @marsbar

@Fantasyproject Ok. Well good luck to you. Hope it works out.

Thank you for the advice 🙂@marsbar

@Fantasyproject You’re welcome. 😇

@marsbar what She said!! 💯