Human contradiction

I liked a guy we both had an intense connection(he is just my type) later I will discover that he is married and he has children.
That was so damn painful and I felt betrayed.
I saw him today he was still want to talk to me I told him that I can't go out with him and I made up some excuse.
He sad like, he's unhappy and he wanted divorce he just doesn't want to hurt his kids.
He makes me feel like that I let him down and I judged him before knowing him.
What do u think?

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Mamapolo2016 · F

I think he may believe what he says (even though it's a lie). I think you should not believe what he says.

A man who truly cares for you would not try to involve you in his mess. A man with your best interests at heart (which is what love should mean) would not ask you to live with heartbreak.

[b]He is asking you to have part of a life while he has two lives. [/b]

I think what you should say and mean is - "If and when you are free to approach me honestly and free from previous vows, if I'm still available, sure, call me and we'll talk. Other than that, stay away."