Human contradiction

I liked a guy we both had an intense connection(he is just my type) later I will discover that he is married and he has children.
That was so damn painful and I felt betrayed.
I saw him today he was still want to talk to me I told him that I can't go out with him and I made up some excuse.
He sad like, he's unhappy and he wanted divorce he just doesn't want to hurt his kids.
He makes me feel like that I let him down and I judged him before knowing him.
What do u think?

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Cheesecake · 61-69, M

I've been that guy. He's highly unlikely to leave his kids for you. If he's any kind of dad, he won't be able to - and if he does, he's maybe not the kind of man you want to be with.
Depends to some extent how old they are and what the marital problems are.
Good luck. Tread carefully.