How long is it okay to feel hurt after a rejection?

It's been a couple of weeks, almost a month and yet I'm still not over her. The person I liked before it took me three or five years to get over and start feeling myself again. It's never been easy to get over someone? I don't even have courage to talk to this girl yet; what should I do?

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SWisGoingWoke · M

I still think about a love lost over 40 years ago.

Razoreye001 · 31-35, M

And I thought I took a long time.

SWisGoingWoke · M

@Razoreye001: lol...didn't say I was obsessing, just think about her from time to time. My point is that people in our lives, in our heart, affect us and they don't just "go away"...they leave us different than before we met them.

You shouldn't forget them, you're not the same as you were before you met.

Razoreye001 · 31-35, M

@O-sure: I see, good to know.