Is it right to tell others unsolicitedly when you're in sorrow?

@Ingwe I thought I'd ruin her day if I would

@scooogy sometimes someone elses sadness takes a hold of us
and they never know about the tears we shed
and the sleepless nights where it haunts us

you know her best..and if you're holding back, you have your answer

@Ingwe I once hoped that she might have sensed my depressiveness, but then again it was only her saying hi in a shy way. I never really know if she's up for sharing thoughts or feelings when needed.

@scooogy Give it a try and see. Share.

@Ingwe I'm cautious with her about her mood since I've witnessed her stressed as well. I somehow fear long-term consequences. I mean yes, we've talked about each other's grandparents who already passed away, but this might be new...