I decided to let go of the past do you think it's a good idea

Throughout mylife I have been careful , everytime I get stabbed I carry on the lessons ,then use them in other relationships, but today I read something that made me want to change my ways . " Let go , of those with black hearts , those who treated you with all the pain and stabes they been throught . Those who with your friendship with them you have to pay a price with your health and sanity , those who only know hurt" and its making me second guess my life .... Am I toxic ?

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Bitabyss · 56-60, M

It sounds like you are surrounded by toxic people, yes. At your age I rather doubt that your circumstances are your fault.

Marydhr · 22-25, F

@Bitabyss my family's very toxic but the lesson I learned or am talking about ... Is one with a previous relationship .. it was horrible ... And now I don't really care I treat everything with no emotions or like I step on my feelings I set them aside and treat the person like they treat me and think to myself I can't step on myself and make myself let go of them easily . It's not forever ... You know I don't trust nobody and I don't treat people innocently like before