@Bitabyss my family's very toxic but the lesson I learned or am talking about ... Is one with a previous relationship .. it was horrible ... And now I don't really care I treat everything with no emotions or like I step on my feelings I set them aside and treat the person like they treat me and think to myself I can't step on myself and make myself let go of them easily . It's not forever ... You know I don't trust nobody and I don't treat people innocently like before