What is Wrong with Men?

What is it with men that they seem incapable of answering a straight question? I come across it frequently. It comes in several forms, one being, they say something you find interesting, you ask them a question about it, and it’s like you never asked. They ignore the question, and go on with something else.
Another one: you ask for clarification on something they say to you, and they respond with drivel that has nothing to do with your question.
I wasted the best part of my prime years with a man who played mind games with me. Trying to get answers was like pulling teeth. It was exhausting. Now when a man wants me to jump through hoops to get an answer, he’s out of luck. Been there, done that, no more patience with it.
I’ve met one woman like this, so it’s not just men, but from personal experience, they are the worse.

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Zonuss · 46-50, M

Its all about choice. The question is what type of Men are you attracting to your inner circle. 🙂

Carissimi · F

@Zonuss I’m not attracting anyone. It’s not about attraction, it’s about general conversation, whether online, or men in the real world. It’s a pattern that I’ve noticed. Not all men, but enough to notice. I’ve only come across one or two women, in my lifetime that do the same, so generally a male characteristic.

Zonuss · 46-50, M

@Carissimi This is a generalization here. I think you are perhaps oblivious to what your subconscious is attracting dear. Its not as bad as you think. Just try and go for the more reserved and personified type who like to engage verbally with people. They exist. 🙂

Carissimi · F

@Zonuss What do you mean by “go for”? I speak to most people who speak to me. Men and women. I don’t “go for” anyone. How rude I would be to only speak to specific people.

Zonuss · 46-50, M

@Carissimi Well what do you expect. Are you having realistic expectations. Ask yourself that question please.

Carissimi · F

@Zonuss I don’t even know what you are talking about. What do I expect? I expect an answer. I don’t consider that unrealistic during a conversation with anyone. This is not complicated. It’s very simple.