When the most obnoxious, unappealing and unattractive dude in your church group gets the cutest remaining single woman there and you are still single

@User41 I can sympathize with you on that. It took me years before I found one where I actually felt welcome and could be myself without being judged for it.

I have a friend that drives literally an hour out of San Diego for church. He says he likes that one better than the local ones. 🤷🏻‍♂️ Idk I kinda get it, I think.

Took me forever to find a good Brazilian jiu jitsu school with cool students and a good atmosphere. Even though technically they all teach the same thing.

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@Tminus6453 That seems to be the type that women like most to be honest.

@SubZeroSlays808 Yeah the younger ones generally do... was that way when i was in my 20's also

@Tminus6453 It sickens me to be honest. I've even tried dating older women to get around this to no avail.

@LeopoldBloom Well, she seemed like a very level-headed and sweet person, so it would be very sad if that turned out to be the case.

@SubZeroSlays808 Hate to think that she feels more comfortable with an obnoxious person because her father was like that and she's used to it. But that happens.

@LeopoldBloom I never thought about that, but that is a distinct possibility 🧐 Thanks for your words of insight!