Have you ever fallen in love with someone you met online...
..and how did you both feel when you met in person? Was the feeling the same or different?
36-40, F
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Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
Yes I did. I fell for her really hard. I still do love her but the same cannot be said from her end.
I was working on my end to make it work. Now being in a relationship with someone from a different country is never easy. I still made efforts. I know I did because if this was a joke then I surely wouldn't be in the situation I am in right now.
I wanted to meet her. But my financial situation wouldn't allow me to attain a visa. So I asked her to meet me and I had promised that I would sponsor the entire trip.
However, at the end of the 4 the year, she blamed me for not being able to meet me because she had spent the money on her family. Then she dumped me with a wide variety of excuses from marriage, interests and even my date of birth. The irony is she sprung all of this out of the blue. Heck I was ignored after my birthday which is when all this happened (when she dumped me). I didn't understand what led to it because I even thought she was sick and she apparently wasn't. I was ignored and blamed for being ignored lol.
Long story short, she dumped me and contacts me again to ghost me. In the end when I see her social media, I realize that she went back to her ex that she wanted when we were together. Apparently, I was nothing but a pawn in her entire game. She blocked my number and kept me off everything in end. I realized that I meant nothing to her at all from the first day. That killed me from within.
I was working on my end to make it work. Now being in a relationship with someone from a different country is never easy. I still made efforts. I know I did because if this was a joke then I surely wouldn't be in the situation I am in right now.
I wanted to meet her. But my financial situation wouldn't allow me to attain a visa. So I asked her to meet me and I had promised that I would sponsor the entire trip.
However, at the end of the 4 the year, she blamed me for not being able to meet me because she had spent the money on her family. Then she dumped me with a wide variety of excuses from marriage, interests and even my date of birth. The irony is she sprung all of this out of the blue. Heck I was ignored after my birthday which is when all this happened (when she dumped me). I didn't understand what led to it because I even thought she was sick and she apparently wasn't. I was ignored and blamed for being ignored lol.
Long story short, she dumped me and contacts me again to ghost me. In the end when I see her social media, I realize that she went back to her ex that she wanted when we were together. Apparently, I was nothing but a pawn in her entire game. She blocked my number and kept me off everything in end. I realized that I meant nothing to her at all from the first day. That killed me from within.
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@Silverwings It's okay. What I couldn't digest was the fact that she used me as a rebound fot 4 years to get rid of her loneliness. She did all that because she only wanted me because her ex was of the same race as I am and when I pieced all that together, it hurt me and broke my heart more. I got into her life because she was depressed. I fixed her but ended up broken in the end.
That scar taught me a lot and I learned my lesson to not trust easily anymore.
That scar taught me a lot and I learned my lesson to not trust easily anymore.