Which is more desirable?

I often see comments that say if you are over a certain age , don't bother me, or there is a notion that older guys are creepy perverts. But which is more desirable, a 20 something young man who is out of shape (or even fit but dim)or a very fit and attractive older guy who is intelligent and experienced in life?

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Stilltryinghard

None of this is desirable. The idea that people can escape true sorrow and loneliness by clinging to one other person and forgetting all else...is SCARY to me.

I don't think anyone has any reason to escape reality, Reality is reason enough. But love is no escape. It just isn't. The HOPE of idealized love is what most people look for when running to another who hasn't rejected them...yet.