Who would you rather spend the rest of your lifetime with?

looks fade, personality grows!

Outward appearance/attraction is nothing without ones heart, personality, genuineness, etc

Physically most attractive. I've had a number of relationships with average and I've tried to be a kind and considerate gentleman always, only to have my kindness taken advantage of so if I had the chance again, I'd be fickle and at least enjoy the view whilst it lasted. Sorry! 😁

Oh!! definitely personality! You have to realise that looks are short-lived because we age. If what you are attracted to is the personality then you stay in love all your lives when everything else changes.

Someone that loves and cares about me and will allow me to love and care about them and we always look at it as our future and our home not hers and his.

personality/everything besides looks.
I want to enjoy their company.

With the ones with whom I can connect with intellectually .. irrespective of looks ..

Personality over looks everyday of the week.

An average personality doesn't work with me.

Attractive and average personality

Second option.

The hot one

I’ve never even gone on a date with someone with average looks before, so I would be absolutely thrilled to go on a date with someone with average looks and really attractive personality!

I think personality in the long run is more important than looks

These questions always confuse me. I don’t often meet people in relationships with people they don’t find attractive physically & mentally. The list of possible partners is long enough I don’t imagine so many settling for one but not the other. As far as romantic relationships go you almost certainly need to be physically attracted to them for it to begin. Then that flame could be blown out quickly if that person offers no substance. One without the other is a waste usually. Might as well wait it out until you find a true match. What a sad thought that we could be someone our partners settled for in either side.