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quitwhendone · M
Do you think they should stay inside their own race?
JBird · F
@quitwhendone not really. But I feel like it's a necessity more than something out of love. Even from my parent's relationship, my Vietnamese dad treated my Indian mother like a commodity rather than a wife. His relatives did the same with their foreign partners
quitwhendone · M
@JBird You aren't giving Asians enough credit. I think they are capable of deciding who they like, love and want to be with. People (especially women) of all races say that.
JBird · F
@quitwhendone that would be a credit if they do it for love
quitwhendone · M
@JBird But you seem to doubt that it is done for love.
JBird · F
@quitwhendone from what I have seen, yes. But it's not always the case.
quitwhendone · M
@JBird But how can you even tell? How do you judge that? Do you sit down and interview the couple in-depth? Or do you walk past them on the street and size them and their relationship up on the fly?
JBird · F
@quitwhendone as I told you I have east Asian father. His 'foriegn' relationship ended after my mother had enough with him. I even heard from few of them boasting about their 'white' boyfriends. I believe they do so because their obsession with white skinned people and wrong idea of white people bring rich. It started becoming popular in India too. Again like I said, there are exceptions.
quitwhendone · M
@JBird I understand. I hear people of other races say the same things.