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Introverts- how would you appreciate being approached?

Before you say “we’d rather not.” I understand this. I’m 50/50. I’m not the most extroverted person myself.
Im a quiet type too but a little more social than he is. Whenever I see him, He literally doesn’t talk to anyone.

I’d like to get to know him so how would I approach and make conversation with an him? A lot of people have told me to make small talk etc but that’s the thing. Don’t introverted individuals hate small talk? Im not the biggest fan of small talk myself and I’d really hate to be intrusive. But it’s not like I can’t just go up to him and unleash a conversation about the meaning of life u kno? .
curiosi · 61-69, F
Shy is not a symptom of being an introvert. Introverts can be shy but shy is anxiety in social situations. Introverts prefer to live inside their own head. It's not that they are anxious it's just more pleasant inside their own head.
Sb356 · 26-30, F
@curiosi No, it definitely doesn’t and I’m well aware that being shy vs introverted are two very different things. I didn’t mean for it to come off like that. A lot of the times people just tell me that if I make small talk with an introvert, my chances are basically ruined. Was just wondering hence the question asked :)
curiosi · 61-69, F
@Sb356 You didn't imply that shy was introvert, but many of the answers seemed to connect the two. I am as introverted as they come. Give me a script and I will stand before a huge audience and give a speech. Not shy in the least bit.
@curiosi Some people live inside their heads because they experience much less anxiety in there.
I would actually appreciate a woman wanting to talk about the meaning of life. Or something that deep. Start of with some small talk and ease into to something more substantive.
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SW-User
Slowly and calmly if you know of any of his interests open with that
curiosi · 61-69, F
Oh yes you can. Unleash that convo on the meaning of life. That's the only way to engage an introvert. We can't stand small talk and want to get away from you as quickly as possible. Start talking about deep things and you have our attention as it's the only way to get us out of our own head.
@curiosi I never would have figured you
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Sb356 · 26-30, F
No, it definitely doesn’t and I’m well aware that being shy vs introverted are two very different things. I didn’t mean for it to come off like that. A lot of the times people just tell me that if I make small talk with an introvert, my chances are basically ruined. Was just wondering hence the question asked :) @energie
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LyricsKeepMeBreathing · 31-35, M
Definitely make small talk with him if you can. Some introverts are just shy until they get to know you. I know this because I am one lol.
Slowly circled in closer and closer the way stalkers do
SW-User
Just go up and say hello.
DDonde · 31-35, M
I do appreciate it.
Small talk is fine, in all honesty. I don't like it, but that's mostly because I'm just not very good at it.

 
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