What is something about yourself that people always seem to get mad at you about?

I don't like texting. I have to be in the mood. Firstly I always work. When I don't work, I sleep or I play on my laptop. YouTube and Netflix, this site, Deviantart and Fanfiction. I won't want to text if I'm too busy doing nothing. And people don't seem to get I don't wanna turn away from a video to lift up my phone and text. Apparently that makes me a shitty friend or not serious enough about relationships. Whatever. Sorry, venting.