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I'm perceived as being harsh by people

I believe in doing things rightly, i follow procedures and will be flexible if need be . I apply this to my job and try to get everyone do things rightly. I play a sort of quality assurance role. But i am being perceived as being harsh by my colleagues. People see me and start to murmur things like 'oh she's coming, who knows what she would say i did wrong this time' If i don't get them to correct these errors, our quality standards will be in jeopardy. I also can't make the corrections myself, else my own job would suffer. But i feel terrible imagining what colleagues think of me. My boss keeps commending my effort and has expressed that things have become very tidy since i took up the role. I love the job but i don't like how others feel about me. Not sure what to do. Any advise please?
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Give no Fs. It's for the betterment of the team. If you're concerned about being liked while maintaining quality assurance, maybe you could spend more time better getting to know them and balancing your serious, professional side with a more lighthearted, warm approach at social gatherings.
MaryN · 36-40, F
@AnonymouslyYours I try that but it doesn't seem to be working so far.