My actual fantasies are so simple: a chat over coffee, watching a movie on TV, or just a walk holding hands !! Why can't they become a reality ??

It's a curse that befalls on any man over 50... We're undesirable. It's just the way it is. Society is meant for young people. Older guys like us are just meant to be comic relief of grandpa figures who occasionally offer comfort and words of wisdom to younger folks (we're also useful as cheap babysitters)