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rckt148 路 61-69, M
7 yrs ago when she passed away was the last time
But I took care of her and supported her the last 14 months of her life ,,and showed her she meant something to me ,
though we had a love /hate relationship
she was Mom ,,the only one I'll ever have
She is missed ..even if its only by me
But I took care of her and supported her the last 14 months of her life ,,and showed her she meant something to me ,
though we had a love /hate relationship
she was Mom ,,the only one I'll ever have
She is missed ..even if its only by me
rckt148 路 61-69, M
@SW-User No I don't regret it though she did wear me out and thought all I cared about was an inheritance ,,
She revere mortgaged the estate and lived it up until she was broke ,,if I had wanted what she and Dad had it would have cost me $185.000.00 to get it back
Dad and I built and maintained the home ,I kept her in her own place until she had to go to hospice ,
Everyone assuming I was well paid for my troubles ,
When she passed I called her creditors and said "I am going home now ,its yours ,and walked away ,
Had I only known 14 months was all she would last ,
I would have spoiled her even more ,I did my best
But maintaining my own home and hers was hard ,
But I have no regrets ,,,and everyone assuming I was getting paid ,,finally got to see the truth ,,and they were ashamed for leaving it all on me ,,,and I am disabled myself ,my brothers were not , and they lived right there ,I lived on the other side of the state .
I just wish I would had spoiled her a little more ,
But she did live it up until she was broke .
But I had to take things easy myself ,,had I passed
everyone was poised to put her in a nursing home ,,
They already had ,,,I checked myself out of the hospital and run home to get her out of there ,,
She got to see who was here for her ,,I only wish she had realized it wasn't for her things
I was not going to do all that ,and pay that much money for my inheritance ,,,,I had my own home
I am sill happy in it today ,,,its mine
Show them love while you have them ,,
time went by to fast looking back
She revere mortgaged the estate and lived it up until she was broke ,,if I had wanted what she and Dad had it would have cost me $185.000.00 to get it back
Dad and I built and maintained the home ,I kept her in her own place until she had to go to hospice ,
Everyone assuming I was well paid for my troubles ,
When she passed I called her creditors and said "I am going home now ,its yours ,and walked away ,
Had I only known 14 months was all she would last ,
I would have spoiled her even more ,I did my best
But maintaining my own home and hers was hard ,
But I have no regrets ,,,and everyone assuming I was getting paid ,,finally got to see the truth ,,and they were ashamed for leaving it all on me ,,,and I am disabled myself ,my brothers were not , and they lived right there ,I lived on the other side of the state .
I just wish I would had spoiled her a little more ,
But she did live it up until she was broke .
But I had to take things easy myself ,,had I passed
everyone was poised to put her in a nursing home ,,
They already had ,,,I checked myself out of the hospital and run home to get her out of there ,,
She got to see who was here for her ,,I only wish she had realized it wasn't for her things
I was not going to do all that ,and pay that much money for my inheritance ,,,,I had my own home
I am sill happy in it today ,,,its mine
Show them love while you have them ,,
time went by to fast looking back
rckt148 路 61-69, M
@SW-User I know you didn't
You have to over look me ,,
It was my 60th Birthday yesterday ,,and my friends and family made it such an awesome day ,,one I did not see coming
I am still a little humbled and emotional I guess
My Mom was loved like that too ,,,but she never got it
She just always assumed people were good to her because they wanted something ,,,never getting ,,,she had blown through anything she had ,,left the estate in debt
My family ,,my kids and grandkids
Were there because they loved her too
Dad would have been so proud of his family ..Mom never got it
So thank you for you patience and kindness
Just kind of reflecting ,,still a little humbled and emotional from yesterday
I am thankful I know I am loved ,,and we tell each other often 馃
Thanks for your kindness
You have to over look me ,,
It was my 60th Birthday yesterday ,,and my friends and family made it such an awesome day ,,one I did not see coming
I am still a little humbled and emotional I guess
My Mom was loved like that too ,,,but she never got it
She just always assumed people were good to her because they wanted something ,,,never getting ,,,she had blown through anything she had ,,left the estate in debt
My family ,,my kids and grandkids
Were there because they loved her too
Dad would have been so proud of his family ..Mom never got it
So thank you for you patience and kindness
Just kind of reflecting ,,still a little humbled and emotional from yesterday
I am thankful I know I am loved ,,and we tell each other often 馃
Thanks for your kindness